Road to Fifty Reflections: Day 5
I often hear people say [whether at home or at work]: “It’s their generation.. we just have to understand the way they act or think...” But why do we excuse it so easily? Instead of shrugging it off or dismissing it as “just their generation,” shouldn’t we be asking: WHO raised them? WHO shaped their values? WHO allowed this mindset to grow? They are the "children of 'our' time"... molded by the choices we made, the standards we set, the comfort we gave. They are privileged not by accident, but because we made things easier, 'softer,' more convenient.. often at the cost of resilience, discipline and responsibility. And on a darker side, let’s admit it: we are also the ones introducing confusion -“grooming” them to be the way they are -for the sake of what we say will “make them happy.” So before we complain about 'this generation,' let us face it: they are not only a reflection of us... they are the consequence of us. If we truly care about the future...